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by Rabbi E. Tauger

Teves

A Month of Enigma

The month of Teves is mentioned twice in the Bible: once as the month in which Nebuchadnetzar began the siege of Jerusalem and a second time, as the month in which Esther was taken by King Achashverosh. On the surface, neither event appears positive. The siege of Jerusalem led to the Temple’s destruction and our people’s exile and the taking of Esther, though ultimately leading to an advantage for the Jewish people, was in itself an undesirable event. The fact that a righteous Jewish woman was taken to be the wife of a lustful, gentile monarch is certainly nothing to celebrate. What is the common factor in both of these events? Seemingly, that gentile nations have power, even over what is most sacred to the Jewish people. They can lay siege to our holy city and take even our righteous women.

Sacred Aspirin

What’s the traditional religious message when facing such situations? “Don’t worry. Even if the present situation looks bad, it is only a phase in G-d’s ultimate plan. Eventually, everything will be good.” The knowledge that everything is from heaven and that ultimately, everything that G-d does is for the good, is often used by religious leaders as a tranquilizer so that we do not feel the pain and difficulty of the moment and can calmly look forward to a rosy future.
Was that the message that G-d wanted to communicate when Jerusalem was besieged? On the contrary, during the duration of the siege, G-d told Jeremiah to warn the people of the forthcoming horrors of the Babylonian conquest: that people would be slain cruelly. His hope was that people would take this message to heart and repent. Unfortunately - and partially due to the efforts of self-styled prophets and religious leaders - his message went unheeded. The people were convinced that G-d would never let the Temple and Jerusalem fall, and precisely for that reason, He did.
And if Esther would have sat back in the palace and consoled herself with thoughts that “G-d is in His heaven; all’s well with the world,” she would probably never have taken the initiative to do anything to save the Jewish people. Indeed, we find that when she first heard that Mordechai had put on sackcloth and was crying in the streets, she sent a butler with a change of clothes for him. It is only when Mordechai sent a harsh message to her, that reality set in, and she was energized to make the effort to save her people.

When Action is Required, not Belief

Now, it’s true that G-d controls everything, and everything He does is for the good. But these axioms of belief
should not be a reason for inactivity. Let’s take a very basic situation. A poor man asks for help. One could easily say: “Look, everything is in G-d’s hands. ‘His mercies are manifest over all His deeds.’ There is no need to worry. He will certainly help this man out of his difficulties.” The Talmud relates that, perhaps because of such an attitude, a Sage slightly delayed helping a poor man and in the interim, the pauper died before his eyes. The Sage was shocked. He immediately sought to correct his conduct.
But even when the poor man doesn’t die, the fact that we take his misfortune lightly should be reason for alarm.
How would we react if we ourselves or someone close to us had to undergo such suffering? Hopefully - and most probably - we would not remain complacent. We would realize that there is a problem and set about trying to fix it.
Precisely that, should be our approach when misfortune is visited upon others. Of course one should believe, but here belief is not what is required to alleviate the poor man’s difficulty. He needs material help on a basic level and each one of us should do what we can to provide it.

Standing Up For Our People

Extrapolating these concepts to matters of larger scale, when we see difficulty visited upon our people as a whole, we cannot remain inert. Take what is happening now in Eretz Yisrael! There are people dying. Jews are being shot at every day. Blood-thirsty terrorists are being applauded throughout the world as statesmen and by and large, our people remain silent. If there was continued shooting in your neighborhood, wouldn’t you try to do something about it? Would you quietly allow the press to portray the people doing the shooting as heroes and the victims as oppressors?
Many will complain: “What can I do? The problems are bigger than I.” This is merely a rationalization for dormancy. Every newspaper has a letters to the editor column. And even when a letter is not printed the fact that a letter on a particular subject was received helps insure that one will ultimately be printed. And on an even more basic level, we all have friends, relatives, and business associates in our circle of influence. If within all the various circles of influence that we command, a call would emerge: “Violence is being ruthlessly perpetrated against innocent people. School-buses are being bombed and motorists are being shot at,” the climate at large would be different. When people’s lives are at stake, we cannot let any rationalizations dampen our enthusiasm to bring about change.

Virtues in Impatience

Similar concepts apply with regard to the most comprehensive difficulty facing our people in the present age: exile.
We cannot remain complacent, rationalizing: “Our parents were in exile and our grandparents were in exile, what’s so terrible if we remain in exile a little bit longer?” Nor can we blame it on G-d, saying that surely the Almighty has a reason for the exile and every moment in the Diaspora fulfills a Divine Purpose.
For a Jew who is aware of his Jewishness, exile should be an open wound, an aching pain that constantly reminds him that his true situation should be different.
And he can do something about it. The problem is not bigger than he is. As the Rebbe continually emphasized, we are so close to the Redemption that it is already possible to anticipate its mindset in our lives at present. Indeed, to a certain extent, whether we try or not, the Messianic dimensions of our environment - the way in which the changing landscapes of science, technology, and education are moving - are compelling us to adopt this mindset.
Here also, it is within a person’s circle of influence that he can make the most effective changes. When people see a person who has internalized the ideals of Mashiach into his life - simply put, he is willing to step out of his way to do a favor for others, he seeks “the knowledge of G-d” and that grants him his greatest satisfaction, and he desires that these values spread - they will start looking at things differently. And as these ripples of change begin to spread, the world at large will be moved, enabling these principles to come to consummate fulfillment.

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Telling Tales

In connection with the imperative to actually do something, when faced with difficulty, we’d like to share the following story:

Once Reb Yechezkel Feigin, affectionately known to his students as Chatshe, was holding a farbrengen - Chassidic gathering- with yeshivah bochurim – Rabbinic students- in a cellar in communist Russia. Needless to say, such a gathering was forbidden, and two of the students were charged with the task of waiting upstairs and keeping their eyes open for anything suspicious. Without any thought of the danger involved, Reb Chatshe farbrenged from the heart. He made demands of himself, and he made demands of the bochurim with whom he was farbrenging. He wanted more sincerity, more commitment. The bochurim understood and took his words to heart. Some began to cry.

Suddenly, one of the bochurim who had remained upstairs came running down. A suspicious-looking group of men had entered the neighborhood. It was possible that they were KGB agents. The atmosphere changed immediately. The bochurim began to suggest different plans. Some thought that they should flee. Others argued that this would arouse suspicion and it was likely that several would be caught. It would be better, they continued, to take out magazines and political science books and pretend they were discussing current events. A third group maintained that the ruse would not help. Instead, they suggested hiding within the building. There was a sub-basement and several closets where they might not be found. The discussion soon became heated, each one defending his suggestions. Then the other bochur came down. The suspicious-looking group had left as unexpectedly as they had come; the farbrengen could continue.

Reb Chatshe told the bochurim: “Your conduct provoked a question.” They listened as he continued. “Which is more important to you — material things or spiritual things?” The bochurim were honest, and right away answered: “Material things.” “Why, then,” Reb Chatshe asked, “when I spoke to you about spiritual things did you begin to cry, and then when a problem arose about our safety, no one cried?” “What would crying have helped?” one of the bochurim answered. “Something had to get done.” “Oh, I see,” Reb Chatshe responded, “crying is for when you know that you’re not going to do anything about a problem.”

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Torah readings of the month

Parshas Mikeitz

This Torah reading describes the encounter between Joseph and his brothers. Now, there is an obvious question that arises in the mind of every reader. Why did Joseph play games with his brothers? Why didn’t he come right out and tell them who he was? There are some who explain that Joseph was taking revenge. His brothers had made him suffer and so to repay them, he made them suffer a little. For those of us who view Joseph as an exemplar of spiritual values, such an explanation is untenable. There must be a valid spiritual perspective, as to why Joseph caused his brothers aggravation. One of the explanations given by our Rabbis is based on the words of Maimonides: “What is complete repentance? When a person confronts the same situation in which he sinned, when he has the potential to commit [the sin] again and does not sin because of his repentance alone.” Why did Joseph’s brothers sell him into slavery? Because they were jealous of him. So Joseph wanted to bring about a situation which could provoke their jealously - he Jacob showed more attention to Benjamin than to the others. And then he imprisoned Benjamin. When the brothers risked their lives to save Benjamin rather than let him remain in Egypt, it was obvious that their repentance was complete.

Parshas Vayigash

Our Torah reading relates, that when Joseph revealed his identity to his brothers, “he cried on the neck of his brother Benjamin and Benjamin cried on his neck.” Our Sages explain that Joseph was crying because he had a prophetic vision of both Temples - which was to be built in the tribal portion of Benjamin - being destroyed. And Benjamin cried because he had a vision of the Sanctuary of Shilo - which was to be built in the tribal portion of Joseph - being destroyed.
Our Rabbis ask: Why was each one crying over the other’s tragedy? Why didn’t they each cry over the difficulty to be visited upon their own descendants?
They explain that crying is a gesture of sympathy and care, a way of making a colleague feel better when there is no way to help him.
Now when it comes to a colleague, it might very well be that one will find no way to help him, for in truth, it is a person himself who must solve his own difficulties. But when it comes to one’s own Sanctuary, crying is not an answer. You must do something. A person must look at himself honestly, find the root of the difficulty and set about solving it.

Parshas VaYechi

The name of this Torah reading means “And he (Jacob) lived.” Nevertheless, the majority of the parasha is devoted to describing Jacob’s death. It describes his final messages to his sons and the details of his burial, nothing about his life.
In a related context, our Sages teach: “Jacob our Patriarch did not die. Just as his descendants are alive; he, too, is alive.” Parshas VaYechi shows us about the life of Jacob’s descendants, how they entered the Egyptian exile and preserved their identity, how they established unity among themselves, and recorded the message of redemption for posterity. In this way, they insured their own life and continuity, and in this way, Jacob their ancestor also remained alive.

Parshas Shemos

Among the featured elements of this Torah reading is G-d’s choice of Moses as a leader for His people. What was the actual process through which G-d revealed Himself to Moses? He caused one of the lambs which Moses was shepherding to run away. Moses, concerned not only with the flock as a whole, but with each element of it, chased after it, anxious to bring it back to safety. When G-d saw that, He saw that Moses was properly suited to serve as a leader for the people.
And so He revealed His presence to him in the burning bush. Here also, however, there was a test. G-d did not call to Moses, until Moses turned from his path and contemplated the miracle in front of him. When “G-d saw that he had turned aside to see,” He called to him.
Too often, we let our tomorrows continue as yesterdays. Indeed, we almost hope that the pattern will not change so that we can continue living our lives just as we did the day before. Even when we see something strange and different, we hurry past, without taking the time to focus on it, lest it ruffle our existing pattern.
Moses was not like that. When he saw something special, he stopped. He took the time to try to appreciate the message that he was being shown, and when G-d saw Moses’ willingness to open himself to change, He conveyed his mission upon him.

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Dates of the Month

Teves 5 - Didan Netzach; the date of the historic ruling ordering the return of the library of Agudas Chasidei Chabad to its rightful owners.
Teves 10 - Asarah BeTeves; the fast commemorating the beginning of the siege of Jerusalem.
Teves 20 - the yahrzeit of Maimonides, the Rambam.
Teves 24 -
the yahrzeit of the Alter Rebbe, R. Shneur Zalman of Liadi, founder of Chabad Chassidism.

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