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by Rabbi E. Tauger
Teves
A Month of
Enigma
The month of Teves is mentioned twice in
the Bible: once as the month in which Nebuchadnetzar began the siege
of Jerusalem and a second time, as the month in which Esther was
taken by King Achashverosh. On the surface, neither event appears
positive. The siege of Jerusalem led to the Temples destruction
and our peoples exile and the taking of Esther, though ultimately
leading to an advantage for the Jewish people, was in itself an
undesirable event. The fact that a righteous Jewish woman was taken
to be the wife of a lustful, gentile monarch is certainly nothing
to celebrate. What is the common factor in both of these events?
Seemingly, that gentile nations have power, even over what is most
sacred to the Jewish people. They can lay siege to our holy city
and take even our righteous women.
Sacred Aspirin
Whats the traditional religious message
when facing such situations? Dont worry. Even if the
present situation
looks bad, it is only a phase in G-ds ultimate plan. Eventually,
everything will be good. The knowledge that
everything is from heaven and that ultimately, everything that G-d
does is for the good, is often used by religious
leaders as a tranquilizer so that we do not feel the pain and difficulty
of the moment and can calmly look forward
to a rosy future.
Was that the message that G-d wanted to communicate when Jerusalem
was besieged? On the contrary, during
the duration of the siege, G-d told Jeremiah to warn the people
of the forthcoming horrors of the Babylonian
conquest: that people would be slain cruelly. His hope was that
people would take this message to heart and
repent. Unfortunately - and partially due to the efforts of self-styled
prophets and religious leaders - his message
went unheeded. The people were convinced that G-d would never let
the Temple and Jerusalem fall, and
precisely for that reason, He did.
And if Esther would have sat back in the palace and consoled herself
with thoughts that G-d is in His heaven;
alls well with the world, she would probably never have
taken the initiative to do anything to save the Jewish
people. Indeed, we find that when she first heard that Mordechai
had put on sackcloth and was crying in the
streets, she sent a butler with a change of clothes for him. It
is only when Mordechai sent a harsh message to her,
that reality set in, and she was energized to make the effort to
save her people.
When Action is Required,
not Belief
Now, its true that G-d controls everything,
and everything He does is for the good. But these axioms of belief
should not be a reason for inactivity. Lets take a very basic
situation. A poor man asks for help. One could easily
say: Look, everything is in
G-ds hands. His mercies are manifest over all His deeds.
There is no need to worry. He will certainly help this
man out of his difficulties.
The Talmud relates that, perhaps because of such an attitude, a
Sage slightly delayed helping a poor man and in
the interim, the pauper died before his eyes. The Sage was shocked.
He immediately sought to correct his
conduct.
But even when the poor man doesnt die, the fact that we take
his misfortune lightly should be reason for alarm.
How would we react if we ourselves or someone close to us had to
undergo such suffering? Hopefully - and most
probably - we would not remain complacent. We would realize that
there is a problem and set about trying to fix
it.
Precisely that, should be our approach when misfortune is visited
upon others. Of course one should believe, but
here belief is not what is required to alleviate the poor mans
difficulty. He needs material help on a basic level and
each one of us should do what we can to provide it.
Standing Up For Our People
Extrapolating these concepts to matters of
larger scale, when we see difficulty visited upon our people as
a whole,
we cannot remain inert. Take what is happening now in Eretz Yisrael!
There are people dying. Jews are being
shot at every day. Blood-thirsty terrorists are being applauded
throughout the world as statesmen and by and
large, our people remain silent. If there was continued shooting
in your neighborhood, wouldnt you try to do
something about it? Would you quietly allow the press to portray
the people doing the shooting as heroes and the
victims as oppressors?
Many will complain: What can I do? The problems are bigger
than I. This is merely a rationalization for
dormancy. Every newspaper has a letters to the editor column. And
even when a letter is not printed the fact that
a letter on a particular subject was received helps insure that
one will ultimately be printed. And on an even more
basic level, we all have friends, relatives, and business associates
in our circle of influence. If within all the various
circles of influence that we command, a call would emerge: Violence
is being ruthlessly perpetrated against
innocent people. School-buses are being bombed and motorists are
being shot at, the climate at large would be
different. When peoples lives are at stake, we cannot let
any rationalizations dampen our enthusiasm to bring
about change.
Virtues in Impatience
Similar concepts apply with regard to the
most comprehensive difficulty facing our people in the present age:
exile.
We cannot remain complacent, rationalizing: Our parents were
in exile and our grandparents were in exile, whats
so terrible if we remain in exile a little bit longer?
Nor can we blame it on G-d, saying that surely the Almighty has
a reason for the exile and every moment in the
Diaspora fulfills a Divine Purpose.
For a Jew who is aware of his Jewishness, exile should be an open
wound, an aching pain that constantly reminds
him that his true situation should be different.
And he can do something about it. The problem is not bigger than
he is. As the Rebbe continually emphasized, we
are so close to the Redemption that it is already possible to anticipate
its mindset in our lives at present. Indeed, to
a certain extent, whether we try or not, the Messianic dimensions
of our environment - the way in which the
changing landscapes of science, technology, and education are moving
- are compelling us to adopt this mindset.
Here also, it is within a persons circle of influence that
he can make the most effective changes. When people see
a person who has internalized the ideals of Mashiach into his life
- simply put, he is willing to step out of his way
to do a favor for others, he seeks the knowledge of G-d
and that grants him his greatest satisfaction, and he
desires that these values spread - they will start looking at things
differently. And as these ripples of change begin
to spread, the world at large will be moved, enabling these principles
to come to consummate fulfillment.
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Telling
Tales
In connection with the imperative
to actually do something, when faced with difficulty, we’d like
to share the following story:
Once Reb Yechezkel Feigin, affectionately
known to his students as Chatshe, was holding a farbrengen - Chassidic
gathering- with yeshivah bochurim – Rabbinic students- in a cellar
in communist Russia. Needless to say, such a gathering was forbidden,
and two of the students were charged with the task of waiting upstairs
and keeping their eyes open for anything suspicious. Without any
thought of the danger involved, Reb Chatshe farbrenged from the
heart. He made demands of himself, and he made demands of the bochurim
with whom he was farbrenging. He wanted more sincerity, more commitment.
The bochurim understood and took his words to heart. Some began
to cry.
Suddenly, one of the bochurim
who had remained upstairs came running down. A suspicious-looking
group of men had entered the neighborhood. It was possible that
they were KGB agents. The atmosphere changed immediately. The bochurim
began to suggest different plans. Some thought that they should
flee. Others argued that this would arouse suspicion and it was
likely that several would be caught. It would be better, they continued,
to take out magazines and political science books and pretend they
were discussing current events. A third group maintained that the
ruse would not help. Instead, they suggested hiding within the building.
There was a sub-basement and several closets where they might not
be found. The discussion soon became heated, each one defending
his suggestions. Then the other bochur came down. The suspicious-looking
group had left as unexpectedly as they had come; the farbrengen
could continue.
Reb Chatshe told the bochurim:
“Your conduct provoked a question.” They listened as he continued.
“Which is more important to you — material things or spiritual things?”
The bochurim were honest, and right away answered: “Material things.”
“Why, then,” Reb Chatshe asked, “when I spoke to you about spiritual
things did you begin to cry, and then when a problem arose about
our safety, no one cried?” “What would crying have helped?” one
of the bochurim answered. “Something had to get done.” “Oh, I see,”
Reb Chatshe responded, “crying is for when you know that you’re
not going to do anything about a problem.”
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Torah
readings of the month
Parshas Mikeitz
This Torah reading describes
the encounter between Joseph and his brothers. Now, there is an
obvious question that arises in the mind of every reader. Why did
Joseph play games with his brothers? Why didn’t he come right out
and tell them who he was? There are some who explain that Joseph
was taking revenge. His brothers had made him suffer and so to repay
them, he made them suffer a little. For those of us who view Joseph
as an exemplar of spiritual values, such an explanation is untenable.
There must be a valid spiritual perspective, as to why Joseph caused
his brothers aggravation. One of the explanations given by our Rabbis
is based on the words of Maimonides: “What is complete repentance?
When a person confronts the same situation in which he sinned, when
he has the potential to commit [the sin] again and does not sin
because of his repentance alone.” Why did Joseph’s brothers sell
him into slavery? Because they were jealous of him. So Joseph wanted
to bring about a situation which could provoke their jealously -
he Jacob showed more attention to Benjamin than to the others. And
then he imprisoned Benjamin. When the brothers risked their lives
to save Benjamin rather than let him remain in Egypt, it was obvious
that their repentance was complete.
Parshas Vayigash
Our Torah reading relates, that
when Joseph revealed his identity to his brothers, he cried
on the neck of his brother Benjamin and Benjamin cried on his neck.
Our Sages explain that Joseph was crying
because he had a prophetic vision of both Temples - which was to
be built in the tribal portion of Benjamin - being destroyed. And Benjamin cried because he had a vision of the
Sanctuary of Shilo - which was to be built in
the tribal portion of Joseph - being destroyed.
Our Rabbis ask: Why was each one crying over the others tragedy?
Why didnt they each cry over the difficulty
to be visited upon their own descendants?
They explain that crying is a gesture of sympathy and care, a way
of making a colleague feel better when there is
no way to help him.
Now when it comes to a colleague, it might very well be that one
will find no way to help him, for in truth, it is a
person himself who must solve his own difficulties. But when it
comes to ones own Sanctuary, crying is not an
answer. You must do something. A person must look at himself honestly,
find the root of the difficulty and set
about solving it.
Parshas VaYechi
The name of this Torah reading
means And he (Jacob) lived. Nevertheless, the majority
of
the parasha is devoted to describing Jacobs death. It describes
his final messages to his sons and the details of his
burial, nothing about his life.
In a related context, our Sages teach: Jacob our Patriarch
did not die. Just as his descendants are alive; he, too,
is alive. Parshas VaYechi shows us about the life of Jacobs
descendants, how they entered the Egyptian exile
and preserved their identity, how they established unity among themselves,
and recorded the message of
redemption for posterity. In this way, they insured their own life
and continuity, and in this way, Jacob their
ancestor also remained alive.
Parshas Shemos
Among the featured elements
of this Torah reading is G-ds choice of Moses as a leader
for
His people. What was the actual process through which G-d revealed
Himself to Moses? He caused one of the
lambs which Moses was shepherding to run away. Moses, concerned
not only with the flock as a whole, but with
each element of it, chased after it, anxious to bring it back to
safety. When G-d saw that, He saw that Moses was
properly suited to serve as a leader for the people.
And so He revealed His presence to him in the burning bush. Here
also, however, there was a test. G-d did not
call to Moses, until Moses turned from his path and contemplated
the miracle in front of him. When G-d saw that
he had turned aside to see, He called to him.
Too often, we let our tomorrows continue as yesterdays. Indeed,
we almost hope that the pattern will not change
so that we can continue living our lives just as we did the day
before. Even when we see something strange and
different, we hurry past, without taking the time to focus on it,
lest it ruffle our existing pattern.
Moses was not like that. When he saw something special, he stopped.
He took the time to try to appreciate the
message that he was being shown, and when G-d saw Moses willingness
to open himself to change, He
conveyed his mission upon him.
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Dates of the Month
Teves 5 - Didan
Netzach; the date of the historic ruling ordering the return
of the library of Agudas Chasidei Chabad to its rightful owners.
Teves 10 - Asarah BeTeves; the fast commemorating
the beginning of the siege of Jerusalem.
Teves 20 - the yahrzeit of Maimonides, the Rambam.
Teves 24 - the yahrzeit
of the Alter Rebbe, R. Shneur Zalman of Liadi, founder of
Chabad Chassidism.
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