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Tales
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"These are the Mishpatim you should
put before them (the Jews): When you buy
a Jewish servant etc."
Mishpatim are one of the three categories
of Torah commandments.
The other two; "Chukim" (illogical
commandments like not cooking milk and
meat together) and "Aidut" (religious commandments
like Tefillin or
Shabbat) aren't so rational. But 'Mishpatim', the namesake
of our Torah
portion, are commandments like not murdering or stealing etc.
that make
sense.
So you would think that this week's
portion should contain only logical commandments. but it doesn't.
In fact it BEGINS with one of the most
illogical: "Don't go to non-Jewish
courts, even if they judge according to Torah law" (Rashi
21:1)!!
And there is another question.
The section begins in the plural: "These
are the Mishpatim you should put
before THEM".
And then continues in the SINGULAR.
"When YOU (singular) buy a Jewish
servant."
G-d is telling Moses what to say to
the JEWS. it should be in the PLURAL?!
To understand this here is a story.
Rabbi Ben-Tzion Grossman is a very
devoted and talented Rabbi that has been
bringing Israeli Jews back to their Jewish senses for tens
of years.
Over thirty years ago two of his 'returnees';
a young married Israeli couple
(let's call them Mr. and Mrs. Gold) went to visit relatives
in Johannesburg
South Africa and once there heard a frightening and sad story.
At that time the Jewish educational
system in South Africa was far from
adequate. Chabad had not yet arrived there. There were only
one or two
Torah Academies and a few girls' elementary schools but no
institutions of
higher education at all.
Well, it so happened that the town
Shochet (ritual slaughterer), a truly G-d
fearing orthodox Jew, had a talented daughter (we will call
her Sarah) who,
after she finished her basic Jewish learning decided to enter
University and
major in Sociology.
She excelled in her studies and before
long had completed her Master's
degree with honors and began her doctoral thesis.
She decided, because apartheid was
becoming an issue, to do her paper on
Arab-Jewish relations in Israel and came to the conclusion
that she would
have to travel to there for a year in order to do the job
properly (this was
before the Intifada and Oslo Accords when Israel was relatively
safe).
She bade her parents farewell, promised
to write them once a week and
embarked. Once in Israel she decided she would begin with
the Arabs and made
her temporary home in the Arab town of Juljilia not far from
Haifa.
She hired a translator and worked feverishly,
interviewing the populace by
day and writing her dissertation into the wee hours of the
night. But all
this time she continued to observe a Jewish way of life; Kosher
food,
Shabbat etc. and never considered otherwise.
Until she met George.
George was very intelligent, kind,
warm and handsome fellow, full of
compliments and deep insights.
He was one of the citizens of Juljilia,
but, unlike the other Arabs, he had
been educated in Oxford and had a Masters in . Sociology.
At first they just worked together,
but after a while their relationship
became less and less academic and Sarah's feeling for Judaism
became more
and more so.
The commandments that were once so
comforting to her became dry rituals, and
Shabbat instead of being a source of rest and renewal became
a cold, empty
bore. And so it was with her Jewish identity in general.
Her parents understood from her letters
what was happening but none of their
arguments and pleas bore fruit. She had made up her mind;
George was her
friend, her destined companion. It was so obvious, logical
and right!
She and George got married.
Her parents were devastated. In fact
her mother took it so to heart that it
wasn't long afterward that she suffered a stroke and passed
away! Her
father fell into a melancholy and found it almost impossible
to continue
working. And so it continued for years.
When Mrs. Gold heard the story she
decided to pay Sarah's unfortunate father
a visit, maybe there was some way she could help. After all
the Lubavitcher
Rebbe taught that every Jew is responsible for the entire
world, and
especially for every other Jew. How could she leave South
Africa without at
least trying.
At first he didn't want to talk about
it but finally he began weeping and
poured out his broken heart.
She suggested that they write a letter
to the Rebbe. In those days there
was virtually no Chabad-Lubavitch presence in S. Africa so
the Rebbe was
almost unknown there, but after a bit of convincing he decided
that he had
nothing to lose and, with Mrs. Gold's help, wrote the letter.
A few weeks later the answer arrived.
The Rebbe wrote that to the Shochet
that he should:
"Wait for a time when Sarah and
her husband have a fight."
It made no sense. How could anyone
possibly know what is happening between
two people in some remote Arab town in Israel thousands of
miles away?! He
didn't even know what was going on in his own next door neighbor's
house!
The Rebbe's answer became the talk
of the town. People regarded the whole
thing as a farce; obviously this Rebbe felt he had to write
something.. so
he wrote this meaningless garble.
But Mrs. Gold didn't take it so lightly.
She convinced the old Shochet to
give her his 'lost' daughter's telephone number and full new
name .. she had
a plan.
Mrs. Gold and her husband returned
to Israel and as soon as she had some
free time she went to the phone, said a Psalm, dialed the
number and .. a
miracle, Sarah answered.
The conversation was short; for some
reason Sarah did not hang up but she
was very reticent and only said a few words: yes, no, maybe.
It ended with Mrs. Gold saying, "Look,
Sarah, here is my phone number. Write
it down. Anytime you want, no matter when or for what reason,
you can call
me. My house is always open to you."
Sarah didn't say a word, just waited
till she finished and hung up the
phone.
Over a year passed and the topic was
almost completely forgotten. But late
one night, well after midnight, Mrs. Gold's phone rang.
Sarah was calling from a payphone.
She was hiding in the city park in Haifa
with her two children and was pregnant with a third. Her husband
had beaten
her and she needed help.
Mrs. Gold immediately contacted Rabbi
Grossman who told her to tell Sarah to
take a taxi to his home at his expense and then they would
decide what to
do.
When she arrived, beaten, cold and
hungry, she broke down and told them that
just a few months after the wedding she began to realize that
George was not
the kind, warm person she thought he was. And as time progressed
he became
more possessive, less human and more outspoken against Judaism.
Now she
wanted out.
They decided that she had to temporarily
return to George, make peace him
and bear the situation until after she gave birth. Then she
should tell him
that she wants to go for a rest with the children for a week
or so and in
that time they would engineer a getaway.
And it worked.
Today Sarah is far from her mistaken
identity, happily married and living a
real Jewish life.. thanks to a strange answer from the Rebbe.
This answers our questions. The Torah
is a book of laws, and many of them
even seem to be logical.
But our section is telling us that,
in fact, even these understandable
'Mishpatim' commandments are (like the difference between
Jew and gentile)
completely above understanding. Even such logical things as
simple court
cases, even if the Gentile judge is wiser than the Jewish
one and both judge
according to Torah law, nevertheless should be decided by
a Jew.
But just because they aren't rational
doesn't mean that they aren't fun and
meaningful. In fact the opposite is true: Because the Torah
is G-dly and
essentially above understanding it can be infinitely alive
and personal.
(That is the theme of the book 'The
Tanya'; 'Mashbiin Oto' that the greatest pleasure and true identity of a Jew is to serve G-d.)
That was Sarah's problem. The reason
she even considered intermarriage was
because she never really internalized the G-dliness of the
Commandments;
part of them wasn't really part of her.. she relied too heavily
on her own
logic and feelings.
But it takes a special person to bring
the 'crazyness' of the Torah and
MISHPATIM it into every Jew's soul.
And that is the job of a Rebbe.
That is why the Torah uses here the
SINGULAR form in the commandment of a
Jewish Servant. G-d was referring to Moses alone!! "When
you, MOSES,
purchase a Jewish servant."
A deeper meaning of Jewish servant
is every Jew; The true identity of every
Jew is to serve G-d.
But only ONE person can inspire them
to do this: Moses - a true Jewish
leader; a potential Moshiach in every generation that inspires
the Jews to
their true identities.
This is what brought Sarah back home
and this is what will bring us and all
the Jews back. We just have to take the advice of the Rebbe:
learn
Chassidut, reach out to others (see end of Moshiach Essay
at
www.ohrtmimm.org/torah) open our Jewish eyes and before we
know it we will
be dancing with....
Moshiach NOW!!
Rabbi Tuvia Bolton
Yeshiva Ohr Tmimim
Kfar Chabad, Israel
Tales
for the Shabbos Table
This week's section contains
fifty-three commandments, the majority of
which deal with money. This week is also "Parshat Shekalim",
which
refers to charity.
Money arouses the hidden recesses of
the soul, arouses the deepest
emotions, and causes people to do the craziest things, including
risking
their very lives (spiritual as well as physical). That is
the main
purpose of the Torah, to teach us how to transform this craziness
into
Jewishness. If a person can learn how to use money to serve
G-d it is a
real novelty. (It's one of the things that Moshiach will accomplish.
See
the last chapter in Mishna Torah of the Rambam.)
The story is told of two souls that
floated past each other in heaven.
One was on the way "down" to get born in the world,
and the other on its
way "up" after finishing its earthly stay.
The one descending said. "Hey!
Hello there! Tell me, are you just coming
from the world?"
"Yes!" the rising one answered.
"Could you tell me what is it
like? I mean, what is there for a soul to
do there?"
"Certainly!" The ascending
soul answered. "Down there, there are
Commandments!"
"Ahhh yes!" The descending
soul said excitedly. "Up in heaven they talk
about them. Even the angels go wild when someone does one.
But I've
never seen one. What are they?"
"What are they!?" exclaimed
the rising one as the distance between them
widened. "They are the inner will of G-d Almighty. And
you can get them
by just giving the right person a few pieces of paper called
"Money"."
"Wow! This is really exciting!"
Said the descending soul as he floated
further away. "Just a few pieces of paper! That's great!
I can't wait!"
"Oh, but just one thing I didn't
tell you" yelled the ascending soul who
in a few seconds would be too far away to be heard, "Until
you get those
pieces of paper...your soul can go out!"
This is the secret of the Holy Temple; taking the mundane
and making it
holy, and is called serving G-d with "All your might"
(As is explained
in the book "The Tanya" in many places.)
And that is the greatness of Charity.
When one gives charity it is as though
he is giving his very life in
order to enliven his fellow man. Therefore, it is often considered
the
most important commandment, and will be one of the main forces
that will
bring Moshiach.
Here is a story to explain.
It was a cold miserable December day
when Shmerel the Rich Miser of
Breditchev died. It wasn't nice to say, but everyone was glad
to be rid
of him, and glad he died on a day when the weather provided
the perfect
excuse not to attend his funeral.
So you can imagine how surprised and
disappointed everyone was when the
Rabbi of the city, the holy Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Breditchev
announced
that he was going to the funeral and wanted everyone else
in the town to
attend.
They bundled up in their warmest clothes
and dutifully complied but
afterward they asked the Rabbi for an explanation. How could
a man that
was such a recluse and a miser merit such a funeral?
"True, he kept to himself."
He answered "But that is certainly no sin.
And you should know that his reputation as a miser was undeserved.
Perhaps once or twice he didn't give as generously as he could
have, and
people started saying he was stingy. But he was a remarkably
generous
person.
I know this, because three times various
people complained about him,
and brought him to trial, and each time I was the Judge.
"Complained? Trial?" murmured
the crowd "What is so good about that?"
someone said aloud.
The Rabbi continued, "The first
time was about twenty years ago, and the
man who brought him was blazing mad.
It seems that a certain businessman
lost a leather pouch in the
marketplace containing over two thousand golden coins that
he was going
to invest in merchandise. Most of the money was borrowed,
so he was
really under pressure. At first he was afraid to advertise
it and
searched alone feverishly for a half-hour. But when it didn't
turn up he
became desperate, confused, started moaning loudly, fell into
a swoon,
and passed out right there in the middle of the market place!
This, of
course, attracted much attention. A doctor arrived and announced
that
the man's life was in danger, and when he revived him, our
hero feebly
mumbled "Two thousand guilders...brown leather pouch....Oy!
Oy!" And
almost fainted again.
Suddenly someone stepped out from the
crowd and announced, "I found
exactly that amount of money a few minutes ago! Here! Look!
What I found
wasn't in a leather pouch, but maybe someone stole it from
you and it
fell from their pocket. I was just on my way to take it to
the Rabbi to
ask him what to do with it. You're in luck my friend!"
Whereupon he gave
the bewildered businessman the money, and disappeared in the
crowd
before anyone could even notice who he was.
But one man did notice; the real thief!
He was holding the money, and
when he saw the "finder" pay from his own purse,
it shook him to the
depth of his soul.
Here he was so selfish that he was
willing to make others suffer, and
this person was willing to suffer, just to help.a complete
stranger.
He began to think deeply, decided to
change his life, and after a few
days he appeared at the door of the "finder" with
the money. But he was
in for a surprise: "Sorry my friend" was the reply.
"I gave that money
because that is what G-d wants. I don't want the money you
stole."
The thief had no recourse but to bring
him to me for trial, and I
decided in favor of the defendant; the thief must give the
money to
charity and stop stealing, but the "finder" didn't
have to accept it if
he didn't want to. And that "finder" was none other
than our Shmerel the
"miser".
A few years later came the second case.
Someone in Breditchev told his
wife that he was going on a business trip for a month. But
he really
intended to desert his family and never return again. He gave
his wife
enough money to last a week, and said that she should go to
Shmerl the
Miser, who owed him a large debt, when she needed more. Which,
of
course, was a lie.
After a week she went to Shmerel's
house, knocked on the door, and asked
for some of the money that he owed her husband. At first Shmerel
didn't
understand what she was talking about. But after a few seconds
he
figured it out. He told her to enter, gave her a nice sum,
apologized
for "forgetting" and told her to return whenever
she needed more.
Meanwhile, her wayward husband wandered
around for five years, until he
managed to get himself into really big trouble. His life was
in danger,
and he and swore to G-d that if he lived he would repent.
Miraculously
he escaped, repented and returned home, expecting the worst.
But he was
amazed to see his wife healthy and even happy to see him.
"Why, Shmerel
paid me the money every month just like you said he would."
She
explained.
But when he went to Shmerel and demanded
that he accept repayment
Shmerel refused to accept. "I don't owe you anything"
He insisted. "I
gave the money of my own free will. If you want, take me to
court."
The case came before me and I decided,
as before, that Shmerel had no
obligation to accept the money, but the man should give it
to charity if
he so desired.
The last case was the simplest. A fellow
named Isaac needed to borrow a
large sum of money for a business deal but couldn't obtain
it, for the
obvious reason that he had no guarantors. The man had a bad
reputation,
and no one trusted him. When he had almost lost hope, he remembered
that
one potential loaner sarcastically told him to try Shmerel
the miser so
he decided to try his luck.
Shmerl received him cordially, invited
him in and asked him to sit down.
But when he heard what he wanted and asked who his guarantors
were, all
Isaac could say was, "G-d Almighty is my only guarantor".
Shmerl thought
for a while, and finally decided to give him the loan, being
that he had
the best guarantor possible.
The loan was to be repaid in a year's
time, but Isaac didn't show up on
time to pay it. In fact, he only turned up five years later
with the
money. But he was amazed when Shmerel refused to take it back!
Shmerel
clamed that as soon as the year was up, he unexpectedly made
an
extraordinary profit from one of his investments which he
considered to
be G-d keeping His end of the deal. "If you want to repay
someone,"
Shmerl said, "then repay G-d, not me. You can give the
money to
charity."
"The man eventually came to court
and pressed charges, but I, as before, refused to force Shmerl to accept the money. So you can see
that you
were wrong about Shmerl. All he cared about was doing what
G-d wants and
making people happy."
One of the commandments in this week's section (22:24) is
to loan money
to poor people. The Rambam tells us (Hil. Matnot Aniim 10:7)
that this
is the highest type of charity, because it gives the recipient
a feeling
of self worth and allows him to maintain his dignity.
So G-d does to us, He gives us a loan.
Although everything is His and he
creates the entire world and all that's in it (including each
of us)
constantly, nevertheless He "loans" us our talents
our senses and our
very lives in order that we work and "repay" Him
and still have the
feeling of self-achievement.
This is the secret of true "Simcha"
or Jewish joy, Like Shmerel the
miser who was happy just to do the will of HaShem and make
others happy.
And that the reason that Charity is so important; it simulates
what the
world will be like when Moshiach arrives. People will no longer
be crazy
for money or selfish things, but only for doing what G-d wants;
making
the world into a perfect place.
Moshiach NOW!
Rabbi Tuvia Bolton
Yeshiva Ohr Tmimim
Kfar Chabad Israel
Torah Online Site: http://www.ohrtmimim.org/torah
Tales
for the Shabbos Table
This weeks section deals in great
detail with one of the most mundane
topics in the Torah; the laws of property damages.
Surprisingly the Zohar explains that
these monetary laws contain one of the
deepest mystical secrets of all; the mystery of gilgulim
reincarnation!
Here is a Baal Shem Tov
story that will help us to understand the
connection between the two.
One beautiful summer day a fancy carriage
stopped in front of the synagogue
which served as the headquarters of the Baal Shem
Tov (Besht for short).
The driver opened the door and a wealthy-looking religious
Jew stepped out
of the carriage, entered the simple building and asked if
he could have a
private
audience with the Tzaddik.
A meeting was arranged and when they
were sitting face to face the rich man
looked at the Besht and wasnt very impressed.
The only reason he came was
to see who is this Holy Man that everyone was talking about
him, and,
frankly, he looked like every other Jew, it was obvious that
he had come all
the way to Mezibuz for nothing.
Well, said the Besht
Would like to hear a story? I have a very good
story to tell you.
Alright, said the visitor looking
at his pocket watch, but I do have a long
ride ahead of me.
Good! he said Ill
make it short.
Once, in the city of Warsaw,
Poland there were two close friends, who were
both religious Jews. They had grown up together, bought houses
next to each
other, went into business together and, when their business
succeeded,
become multi-millionaires together. Their friendship was so
strong that they
were like brothers.
He paused, looked up and asked his
guest, Are you listening? When he
nodded yes the Besht continued.
After several years they decided
to open a branch in Paris with the idea
that one of them would move there to manage the new endeavor.
Everything went smoothly. They
traveled to Paris together, made the
necessary connections, opened the business, bought merchandise
and only
after being sure that everything was running smoothly they
parted.
At first they wrote to each other
twice a week, but as time went by they
corresponded less and less frequently until ten years later
they were
writing only to wish each other happy holidays.
Then one year the partner in
Poland ran into some bad luck, suffered some
major losses, and suddenly found himself without a penny,
in fact a debtor.
With no other choice he used his last money to buy a train
ticket to France
with the hope that his friend would help with a loan.
However when he arrived at his
friends home and suggested the idea, his
friend replied in amazement. What! A loan? I should
give you a loan!? Why
that is ridiculous!!! Im not giving you any loan! We
are brothers!! Half of
what I own is yours! Take one million dollars!!! Here!!
They embraced and wept on one
anothers shoulders, renewed their friendship
and a week later the poor partner returned a new man with
renewed hope to
Warsaw, reinvested his freshly acquired funds and in a years
time regained
his wealth.
But, just as before, in a few
years time they had both returned to their
busy schedules and remembered to write only occasionally.
The years passed
and about ten years later the wheel of fortune again took
a bad turn, but
this time for the partner in Paris. He too lost all his money
in a series of
unlucky business deals and with no alternative he decided
to visit his
partner in Warsaw. He wasnt a young man anymore, and
he was a bit broken
from the strain of his financial fall, but he had no other
choice and he
knew he could always depend on his friend in a time of need.
But he was in for a bitter surprise.
When his friend in Warsaw happened
to glance out the window of his mansion
that day and saw his partner approaching, a strange thought
entered his
mind. Oh no!!! Its him! he thought, Why
did he have to come now!! If he
wants his money Ill lose that big merger that Ive
been working at for
years! He paced back and forth in his warm plush room,
poured himself a
brandy, made a blessing, drank it down, loosened his collar,
and called his
servants.
Well, you can imagine the disappointment
of the poor man when one of the
servants came to the gate and informed him that the owner
was away for an
indefinite amount of time.
It was already evening and he
was so very tired from the trip. He sat down
at the gate to rest for a few minutes and drowsed off to sleep.
It must have
been an unusually cold night that night, or perhaps he was
not feeling well,
but whatever the reason, the next morning they found him huddled
up at the
gate
dead.
The poor partners soul
went up to the heavenly court and when he was
informed, after a very short trial, that he would go to heaven,
he
immediately asked about his partner. Your partners
selfish callousness was
responsible for your death. Was the answer, his
spiritual future is black.
If so, the poor mans soul replied
I shall not enter heaven until he be
given another chance.
So the court decided, after long
deliberation, that the only solution would
be that both partners would have to return to the world after
their deaths.
The stingy partner would be reincarnated to a rich man and
the kind one
would have to be reincarnated to a poor man who would collect
charity from
him. Only after the rich one paid all his debt would he be
eligible for
heaven.
The soul of the departed man
agreed and eventually they were both
reincarnated. The Baal Shem Tov paused, looked at his
incredulous guest and
continued.
The bad partner grew up to be
rich and his poor friend came every day to
ask him for a handout. This went on for years until one day
the rich man was
in a bad mood and when the poor man knocked at his door a
bit too loudly,
the rich man lost his temper, opened the door, struck the
poor man over the
head with his cane and
. unintentionally killed him!
(Of course he didnt
realize that it was the second time hed killed the same
man and that he
just ruined his only chance for clearing his past.) The rich
man felt
terrible, he had killed a man! But then he realized that he
was in big
trouble; he was guilty of murder! He looked about him desperately
and seeing
that no one was around, dragged the body to a side of his
huge garden, dug a
hole and buried him. And thats the end of the story!
Have a safe journey
back home!
The visitor did not move. He was sitting
motionless
stunned as though hed
just received devastating news.
Are you all right? asked
the Besht. Can I bring you a cup of water?
Tears were streaming down his face and his body was shaking,
he was weeping
uncontrollably.
That was me! he whispered,
I killed that man!!! I buried him in my
garden.
With these words he slid off the chair
onto his knees and then rolled up
into a ball on the floor and wept like a baby. My G-d
My soul is
destroyed!
No answered the Besht
I didnt tell you your story for nothing. There
is
always hope! G-d is merciful, even for you. Your must give
away all your
money and wander for the rest of your life helping others.
If you are
sincere, G-d will forgive you.
The book The Tanya tells
us that the reason for reincarnation of a soul
into a new body is in order that it physically fulfill the
service of G-d
that was overlooked or lacking in the last body.
This service is best summed up in the
most important prayer in Judaism
called Shma Yisroel, a prayer that every Jew is
supposed to say twice a
day. There it says: You should love G-d with all your
Heart, all your Soul
and all your Might.
The Rabbis explain that this is referring
to three types of love, each
deeper and more encompassing than the one before it: Loving
G-d with all
your Heart means to love Him even more than your own
ego. All your Soul means even more than your very life, to be willing to die for
G-d. But all
your Might is even greater. It means to love G-d even
more
than your
MONEY!!
Sounds strange? Well its not.
One of the most tragic stories in the
Torah is how G-d wanted the Jews to
leave the desert and enter Israel, and how the Jews refused.
It all centered
on making a living! The Jews knew that in Israel their livelihood
would not
come miraculously but rather through hard work and they were
afraid that
they would forget the Creator.
The most difficult thing is to work
with all your energy to make a living,
to really sink your heart and soul into it
and then
give ALL the credit to
G-d; to treat all your belongings, profits and accomplishments
as though
they are purely gifts from the Almighty, to give charity cheerfully,
to be
completely honest, and to never allow money to interfere in
any way with
doing G-ds commandments.
That is why one of the first jobs of
Moshiach will be to encourage everyone
to follow the Torah and one of the immediate results will
be financial, all
human needs will be in abundance. Only then, when people will
be free to
serve G-d with all their Might and all the souls will return
to pure eternal bodies, in the raising of the dead.
Moshiach NOW!
Rabbi Tuvia Bolton
Yeshiva Ohr Tmimim
Kfar Chabad Israel
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